I have two passions in my ife; yoga and riding a bike. I know, it seems weird as it really is the two most different things in the world; yoga is calm and feminine and riding a 250 kilo bike is powerful and masculine. And funnily enough it is also there I am having the most of my work right now, finding the balance between femininity and masculinity. So this year when we were discussing what to do over the holidays I took it as a sign that the idea of a trip on the bikes was

My ex used to say I was a terrible friend. The fact that I didn't have any friends from my childhood clearly proved it! It was often said that I didn't put in enough work to maintain the relationships I had, that I was egocentric and didn't give people around me the benefit of the doubt. That is what he said - and stupid me, I believed him! It meant that I cut off people from my life that he didn't like (I didn't realise until after my divorce!) and I let others have a hold o

I am a bit jealous of the people who are small and skinny, athletic and strong - and I must admit I more that once have started crying in a class because I couldn't do what the teacher did. Very frustrating - and being a Virgo, maybe even worse. If you are one, you will understand: I don't like doing new things that I haven't done before because of the risk of failing epically! So - to see how an asana (a yoga pose) is supposed to look and then just know that my pose looks mo

I've always had issues with my hair. The last many years I've only combed it when I was at the hairdressers (every 6-8 weeks!), I only rustled it up with my fingers and shaken my head, looked in the mirror thinking ".... yeah..... well, doesn't get any better, now does it!!?" I have never been happy about the way I look. I'm 180 metres tall, big in body and personality - too big many has said - curvaceous, loud in speech and choices. Many years I have tried to "fit it", be sm